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Welcome Steven Norton


My name is Steven Norton,


I’m 54 years old, disabled because of back problems, COPD and a fair-sized list of other complaints that has changed the direction of my life!


After a major fight with OCC to get out of the tiny room in a shared house I lived in for six and a half years, I finally got a wonderful bungalow in Kidlington two and a half years ago.


I started my working life by making cornflake cakes in the evening then selling at school the next day. At seventeen I joined the RAF and the following years gave me an incredible experience where I learned the importance and joy of teamwork but also the companionship and friendships that have lasted a lifetime.


In the mid-nineties in Manchester, I started buying and renting out properties, I fought the council, tenants, drug dealers and prostitution. I was trying to build something that would last, give a home to people who had little or no hope of getting somewhere to live and in time, give me a pension so I could go and live on a pretty beach sipping rum based cocktails (recipes to be shared later!)

Thee foolish naivety of youth…!!!!


Sadly, I lost everything and ended up sailing away on an old fourty-five foot, canal boat. The next ten years were a misery of self-reproach, self-hatred and dreams of where I should have done things slightly or massively different. After stripping and resealing my boat, travelled with a friend heading for Bristol.


I woke one morning moored in Wolvercote. This was so beautiful. Six months later I moved to the Thames - I stayed here for a further three years.


Round this time my mother died. I fell apart. This led to me waking in hospital one day after a failed attempt to end the misery I believed I could never escape.


A man called Ian was sat by my bed, he and his wife led me to rebuild my life. This started with the room in a shared house, boat sale and attending Mind at the Mill on Cowley Road three or four times a week, then I started attending a writing class through Crisis.


I gained a foundation degree at Ruskin College which for a man who left school at fifteen with no qualifications was quite a step.


In the last year my tutor thought the piece created for his class, teaching people how to write, had merit. After college finished, we worked on the piece together. I taught three classes on the back of my achievements. The television script we created were based on moments of my life – this was truly amazing for me, as I never believed I could achieve so much.


I mentioned how amazed and thankful I was for all of this support I’d received, she pointed out that maybe I could give something back. This was another revelatory moment.


I started volunteering at a Sue Ryder shop. I received a weekly box of supplies from the Cherwell larder, then I volunteered at Exeter Hall, welcoming each person how it worked. I was very dedicated to raiding their pockets for as many donations as possible!!

I have realised that I get exponentially more from volunteering than I put in. When this opportunity to work with Wendy and all the other ambassadors arose, I was fascinated, it took more than one sleepless night to realise that maybe I could bring something to the table, that volunteering with the Council will help so many people struggling to deal life and with the council systems that often lose touch with the tenants and community they serve.


I love working collaboratively and work well in a team.


I have experienced much in my life and hope to bring some of this to the forums we will work in.

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Olga S
Olga S
Oct 21, 2021

Welcome Steve! I'm joining our fellow Ambassadors in welcoming you to our diverse group, adding to what Brenda, Dave, David and Wendy have already beautifully said!


Oh wow, what an incredible, frank and characterful introduction, sharing such depths and lights. It's moving to hear how much you have faced and overcome, after tender personal losses and other big life events... and can imagine how much it takes, to recreate your life anew, adapting to changes, achieving amazingly, at Ruskin College, through your writing and more. Sounds like you are rising-once more, Phoenix-like !


(Oh, phoenixes or parrots, which shall it be ?! I'm sure Dave our Parrot Man will have things to say! Personally, I know more about phoenixes, yet…


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to hearing more from you in the future. Hope this has made sense as my computer has got a mind of it's own today!

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Brenda, I am glad I am not the only one who has a computer like that! We do indeed have some banter as you say whilst achieving often some good goals with things and having our say on things.

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Welcome Steven. With some of these comments you might be wondering what you have let yourself in for. From your introduction I must say "Well done" for how you have coped with many traumas in your life. I hope that being in the TI family will give you support if you should need it. Yes we have our banter, but hopefully we achieve improvements not only for ourselves but for others who rely on social housing. We disagree with each other at times but healthy debate is good. It often leads to everyone tweaking their thoughts because they have heard of the experiences others have gone through. Looking forward

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Welcome aboard! I am Dave the quiet one round here! Can be found lurking around the forum pushing a tea trolley I was given by Ma'am Wendy getting on for 2 years ago, I been trying to pass it on since!!


Is that maybe a mynah bird I see?? Parrot owner here X3. I am sure Ma'am Wendy can tell you about Dolly wanting to join in one day in a meeting!!


Look forward to getting to know you and chatting more. I too have spine problems which a whole other story and spend my time sticking needles in my wife 4 times a week. I do her dialysis at home! Also have adult son with special needs so life…


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dclincoln
dclincoln
Oct 15, 2021

Welcome Steven. Look forward to working with you.

Remember 'First Oxford then the world!!'

🌍😉

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